One of the most frequently asked questions when I give a client an exercise, eating and menu plan is, “What do I feed my children?” My response is, “Have them eat the foods on the plan, it’s good and healthy for them also.” “Why can’t your children learn better eating habits and live a healthier lifestyle along with you.”
When clients realize they have to improve their eating habits, they start to worry about planning meals for the entire family. Their response is “My kids will not eat those foods.” They start feeling the stress of fighting their kids to eat healthier.
Are we so concerned with how we look that we totally overlook the fact that our children can also benefit from good eating and exercise habits. Let me remind you of a few things, those high fats, sugar infested foods and no vegetables, fruits or water are encouraged for the child, are creating fatter children with cardiovascular diseases such as diabetes, high cholesterol levels, clogged arteries, and high blood pressure. And let’s not forget the psychological factors such as low self-esteem, anorexia and bulimia, followed by depression.
The client’s main concern is preparing separate meals for breakfast, lunch, dinner etc. After all, their children are used to satisfying their little taste buds with sugar infested cereals for breakfast, high fat bacon and fried eggs along with high fattening lunch and dinner human killers. They feel that if they introduce their kids to brown rice and chicken breasts instead of chicken nuggets, hamburgers, macaroni and cheese, fried chicken, pizza and coke, it’s going to be a fight! Well, to be honest it’s none of my business if you choose to clog your child’s arteries, contribute to their obesity and quit frankly shorten their life span. But, yes, I am concerned.
My son asked me if we were on a diet, because of the way other kids eat at school. My response was “NO son this is how and what we eat.” My son has a checklist that he must follow everyday one of his tasks says this: AFTER SCHOOL FUEL YOUR BODY! He has been educated on food and nutrients for many years now. He knows what it means to consume lean proteins to repair his muscles, starches for long term energy and mental concentration to study, do homework, workout, and participate in sports.
I do cut him slack on the weekends, it’s our junk days, Saturday and Sunday, 4 meals a week. Don’t get me wrong my son and I may have pizza, soda, with a little candy here and there. It’s ok to have a balanced sensible common sense lifestyle. Some experts might disagree. Giving your child balance will help them maintain their sanity and allow them a chance to eat well for the rest of their lives.
I realize in-order for a client to succeed long term there must be flexibility. For instance if a client slip on their eating, they are urged to forget about it and eat well the very next meal. If you crave a piece of chocolate have a bite, just don’t eat it in place of a nutritious meal. Children must learn to have flexibility eating also. They must learn that temporary setbacks are normal but then quickly shift their focus on getting back on track. They will learn how to deal with this issue in a real life perspective.
It’s simple, I buy the groceries, I feed and take care of the kid, and I am raising him until they graduate out of high school. My kid have no choice and I tell him so, that you will eat the oven baked barbeque chicken breast, the roasted turkey, the baked lemon and herb fish, steamed veggies, chicken flavored brown rice etc. I AM NOT ASKING YOU, I AM TELLING YOU CHILD!! I don’t want to be responsible for cardiovascular diseases or shortening my child’s life, it’s just that simple.
In my household there are 3 rules he will follow.
- Rule #1- You will do your homework and study
- Rule# 2 – You will be involved in some kind of activity to stay in- shape.
- Rule #3- You will eat vegetables, fruits, whole grain foods and lean proteins.
Don’t give your child a choice to be healthy, demand it! When they leave your house on their own it’s then their life and body until then……
Hey kid you don’t have a choice I prepared it and now you will eat it!